Today would have been Mums 79th birthday. It's been nearly 9 years since we lost you and there has been so much happen in that time which you have not been part of. James was born nearly 5 years ago and I know you would have loved him as much as you did Tabitha. He is growing into a proper boy and I'm so proud of him Mum. Tabitha is 14 now, she is all you would have wished for her, confident, outgoing and beautiful, she is my 'gorgeous girl'. She loves her music, and I know she would have been singing to you all the time, Dad has had to take your place there! She wants to be a midwife, mum, can you believe that? She has some lovely friends and she is very happy. Me, well I still shed a tear, still forget sometimes that you have gone, and then realise and am sad, but I'm happy with Dave, who I know you sent me. He's all you would have wanted for me, and more. I know that you would say 'our Sarah is doing fine' and I am Mum, I am.